Bawdy Storytelling


Has a bad breakup ever made you think ‘the only way to get over someone is to get under someone else’? Author and Ethical NonMonogamist Kevin A Patterson is feeling a bit lost and confused, so he grabs his Bang bag and orchestrates his own gender non-specific traveling hand orgy. For one entire day, he schedules tag team handjob deliveries, because making people feel good, feels good. So much driving, so many g-spots and vaginas…and as the clock counts down, the competition is getting fierce. Who will rank #1 in orgasms on the dry erase board?


Song: ‘Trophy’ (Charli XCX)


About the Storyteller:


Kevin Patterson is an active member of the Philadelphia polyamory community. He's been practicing Ethical NonMonogamy since 2002 after opening up a relationship that eventually became his marriage. 


In April of 2015, Kevin started Poly Role Models, an interview series for people describing their experiences with polyamory. Poly Role Models was part of a drive and a desire to change the way our lives and communities are viewed. To continue that discussion of polyamorous representation, Kevin has extended the blog's work into the writing of the book, Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities. Along with co-writer Alana Phelan, Kevin launched a sci-fi novel series, For Hire, Operator that centers characters of color as well as other marginalized identities.


Want more of Kevin?




Group Sex | Ethical NonMonogamy l Polyamory l Race l Open Relationship l Sex Education l Philadelphia l Orgy l Bruises l Powderpuff Girls l Threesome l Tag Team l Handjob l Road Trip l Fists of Fury l Excel Spreadsheet l Wrestling l St. Andrews Cross l Fuck Truck l Craftsman Toolchest l Hockey Puck l Breakup l Hands On l POC l Play Party l


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This Friday, June 21st is our Portland, Oregon LIVE Bawdy (2 shows!) AND it’ll be LIVESTREAMed


2 individual back-to-back shows:


7:30 PM: Tickets for

Bawdy Storytelling (the curated show):


10:30 PM: Tickets for

Tickets for BawdySlam (Tell YOUR story - and Win Prizes!)

(Save $10 when you buy the BOTH SHOWS Option)


At 7:30 PM, it's our infamous curated sex and storytelling show, with polished & curated stories, original music and our custom Bang-O game to help you make new open-minded friends. 


And at 10:30 PM, Wanna tell a story at Bawdy? Put your name in the hat to tell your own true 5 minute story of sex, kink, gender or body image. You can win Sexy prizes!


Performers for the 7:30 PM Curated Bawdy include:


• Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour

• Sex Geek & Relationship Coach Reid Mihalko

• Dance Naked & Plan V's Eleanor O'Brien

• Everywhere is Queer's Charlie Sprinkman

• Black Man of Trans Experience & VanLifer, Rocky Lane

• Music by Mark Growden

• Play Bang-O to make New Friends - & Win Prizes

• Win Prizes from Le Wand & B-Vibe

• Win Prizes from Uberlube & Lovely Planet

• Sexy Cocktails & Food available

  • Join us for the Best First Date EVER
  • Bawdy can help you find your People!


In Review:

  • Friday, June 21st, 2024 (7:30 & 10:30 Bawdy shows)
  • At Curious Comedy Theater
    5225 NE Martin Luther King Jr Blvd, Portland, OR 97211


Important Question:

I am considering ending the Bawdy podcast at 300 episodes. It’s been over 7 years now… Is this thing on? I wanna hear from you…my email is


If you love Bawdy, I need to hear from you. Now, as this decision will affect both of us. Podcasting is a lot of work, and I’m wondering if I should put my energy to use in some other way.


The Financial costs to produce a podcast are a bit part of my indecision. If you want to ensure this podcast continues,

Please make a one-time Donation to keep us going!


Better yet, Join Bawdy’s Patreon now to get exclusive Patreon-only rewards (and my eternal gratitude). Podcasting has been decimated by high profile celebrity podcasts, and Independent podcast like Bawdy are suffering…The Golden Age of Podcasting is over, so if you love the Bawdy podcast, remember: this thing is entirely Listener Supported, and we need your financial assistance to continue.




Other ways to keep Bawdy going:

Our Payment links are:



@BawdyStorytelling or




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Ko-fi :


Storycoaching: I wanna work with you on your Personal Story/Keynote/Solo show/Wedding/You name it! Storytelling is essential to your personal and work life. Right now I’m offering private coaching on Zoom… Want to work on your personal branding? (your dating profile, website, etc). Want my help to develop the story line for your documentary? to help craft personal stories for the stage? I can help you live the life that you’ve always dreamed about: communicating with clarity, landing your dream job, feeling more confident when you speak socially and on stage, and discovering what makes you tick (storytelling is so good for figuring out what drives you).

Whether it’s getting onstage for the first time, writing your memoir, creating a podcast, or learning how to use brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at and let’s make it happen.

Bawdy Got Me Laid perfume: Dixie has created her own fragrance and it’s getting rave reviews!


Here’s one now: “Okay hear me out, THIS PERFUME IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. I will probably never buy perfume from another shop. That’s how good these are. #bawdygotmelaid is so sexy, so sweet, so delicious. The Amber and ylang ylang is what sold me, and it did not disappoint!” - Carlie

You’ll love #BawdyGotMeLaid, scented with golden Honey, Amber, Ylang Ylang, and warm Vanilla. There’s also our creamy Bawdy Butter, Hair & Bawdy Oil, & more. Bawdy Got Me Laid cologne - in a beautiful bottle, or a convenient roll-on applicator - means you can deliver your own great smelling Motorboats while supporting Bawdy. It’s sexy yet innocent, and even moms and kids love it.


Get yours today at

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Upcoming Story Workshops: My new workshop ‘Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want’ is coming soon. I’ll be announcing the date - and share the ticket link…Stay Tuned!


AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you?


      • How to Be Fascinating: Dixie’s Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking)

            How to Be Bawdy: Dixie’s Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an inclusive, detailed yet relatable way. Special topics will include polyamory stories, kink stories, illustrating consent in your story, transporting your audience into a scene, and more)


Make sure you’re the first to know when registration opens for these workshops - they sell out!

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Where should I bring Bawdy next?

Do you want Bawdy Storytelling in *your* city? I’m ramping up for more cities and live shows. Maybe an evening of *my* personal stories, or a House Concert, a BawdySlam, or ? Send me a message, tell me what you’re thinking, and let’s work together. Message me at


My Writings, and the Ramble: My upcoming Substack ’The Dixie Ramble' is at #Subscribe


Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you’re IN!

Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible!

Team Bawdy is:


Podcast Producer: Roman Den Houdijker
Sound Engineer: David Grosof

Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith

Video & Livestream support from Donal Mooney

Bawdy’s Creator & Host is Dixie De La Tour

& Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your s*x-positive podcast collective!


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