Bawdy Storytelling

Do you shy away from new mouths and genitals after the Pandemic? Cuddle Party facilitator & emotional fermentation starter Scoby has been situationally monogamous for most of COVID, and now she’s ready to get back out there. But at her first sex-positive retreat, but she’s feeling a lot of shame about her lack of arousal - until a meditative cockstroking workshop in the rain changes everything. And this week, come meet Dixie in person this Friday October 14th at Doghouse Leathers (715 E Pike Street, Seattle WA). Let’s hang out from 6-9 PM PST at Doghouse Leathers (our Bang-O sponsor for this show!) #SwimmingInSkin #Boundaries #Consent #Desire


Song: ‘Them’ (Flavia)


About the Storyteller:

Cuddle Party facilitator & emotional fermentation starter Scoby dove into the worlds of kink and polyamory after attending a Bawdy show in 2014. She now hosts communication and consent workshops, also known as Cuddle Parties, as a certified facilitator. While she can make kombucha (like her namesake the Symbiotic Colony Of Bacteria and Yeast), she’s more of an emotional fermentation process starter and also offers intimacy coaching. She can sing you any song from Crazy Ex Girlfriend.

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SEATTLE: ‘Feels like the First Time’ is this Saturday, October 15th! We’ve just released the last few tickets to the live show, and this is our very first Livestream from Seattle so grab a ticket and watch it live. Performers include Leah Carey, Soren Berg, Kirsten Mohan, Magnolia Rouge and special musical guest  - in her first US appearance since Lockdown - the award winning Shirley Gnome! We’re so excited about this joyful reunion with our Seattle community. Tickets at


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SAN FRANCISCO: ‘This Feels Dangerous is happening on Friday, October 28th. Kick off Halloween weekend by donning your sexiest costume and getting Bawdy with us at the Verdi Club - or tune in to the Livestream, wherever you are. Our Lineup of storytellers and musical performers announced soon, and Tickets are on sale now at


Patreon: Live shows attendance is really hit and miss lately due to COVID fears, and as we get close on a new year, I’m having a hard time figuring out where to focus my energy. As I face this new post-Lockdown frontier, do I buy new equipment for online shows? Do I agree to the exorbitant venue rate increases I’m being quoted, and focus on live shows? There’s so safety net for Performers, and so many shows are calling it quits in 2023. As a Bawdy Patreon member, your support for Bawdy’s important work can help to ensure that it continues and that we don’t go away, too. Join Bawdy’s Patreon now and you’ll get exclusive rewards when you join (like monthly free livestream tickets at the $10/mo level and our ad-free podcast episodes) Please consider becoming a Patreon member. I need your support, now more than ever. Join the Club now at


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Wanna work with Dixie? Do you want to learn to tell a compelling, relatable personal true story? I can help you dig deep, gain understanding and communicate with clarity. Whether it’s getting onstage, Writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at and let’s make it happen.


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Check out our Bawdy Storytelling Fiends and Fans group on Facebook - it’s a place to discuss the podcast’s stories with the storytellers, share thoughts with your fellow listeners, & help Dixie make the podcast even better. Just answer 3 simple questions and you’re IN!

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Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible!

Team Bawdy is:


Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker
Sound Engineer: David Grosof
Archivist / Video: Joe Moore

Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney

Live-streaming by Rubeun Tan and Ty McKenzie

Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith

& Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour

& Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! 




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