Bawdy Storytelling

Have you checked ‘Best Threesome’ off your Google Spreadsheet? Queer Polyamorous Ethical Slut Tanya Gilstrap has just figured out that they enjoy being a service top, and is really sure that sex is great with their new partners Luna and Jacob. But are they ready for the next step: sex and drugs with them? Let’s find out. And now that the drugs are kicking in: who’s in Control? Which one of you do I call Sir? And hey, will you beat me with this Frisbee? #ChangingRoles #Endorphins #ThankYouGhosts


About the Storyteller:


Tanya Gilstrap is basically a Seattle local, even though they were born in California. They’re queer, polyamorous and an ethical slut. Tanya’s been a member of the Seattle Bawdy family for years, either taking photos at the event, acting as stage mgr or getting up and telling stories of their own. Tanya was thrilled to win Seattle's Best of Bawdy contest because they LOVE talking about Sex and Novelty. Is there anything better?!


Song: ‘Homemade Dynamite’ (Lorde)


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Bawdy Storytelling returns to live shows with Kinktacular on Sunday, September 25th! We’re celebrating Folsom Street Fair - that most high of Holy Days for Kinksters - with our big Folsom Kinktacular. We’re an Official Folsom Street Fair event, so join us after the Fair; we’ve got infamous perverts like Madison Young, Author Janet Hardy, Leathermen Discussion Group’s Al Rahm Lujan. Buy tickets for the live performance, or you can watch from anywhere on the Livestream: Tickets at


Bawdy Storytelling’s ‘Feels like the First Time’ will be in Seattle on Saturday, October 15th and I’ve just confirmed 2 brand new storytellers for this show! Have you pitched me your story yet? It’s been almost 3 years since we did Bawdy in Seattle, and now we’ve got a new venue, new storytellers who are flying in cause they’ve heard the Seattle audience is incredible and we’re so excited about this joyful reunion with our Seattle community. Tell your friends about Bawdy’s return, and buy Tickets now at


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Wanna work with Dixie? Do you want to learn to tell a compelling, relatable personal true story? I can help you dig deep, gain understanding and communicate with clarity. Whether it’s getting ontage, Writing a memoir, creating a podcast, or learning brand storytelling for your business, I can help. Email me at and let’s make it happen.


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Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible!

Team Bawdy is:


Podcast Producer: Roman Den houdijker
Sound Engineer: David Grosof
Archivist / Video: Joe Moore

Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney

Live-streaming by Rubeun Tan

Storytelling support by Mosa Maxwell-Smith

& Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour

& Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts. Bawdy Storytelling is proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! 




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