Bawdy Storytelling

Can Sex and Kink help you manage Pain? Sex and Disability activist Caz Killjoy is busy scribbing down future plans in a bar, and it’s like honey to the bees; these guys are INTO being ignored. They just keeping comin’! So at closing time, Caz heads back to a hotel room for a night of wild sex with identical twins - wait, whose hand is that? And which orifice is it in? But when Caz wakes up with a massive pain in the ass, their whole life changes: Dismissive general practitioners become physical therapists then rheumatologists, acupuncturists, orthopedists, psychiatrists, chiropractors… It takes years for the medical community to provide an answer. UPDATE: Caz’ big reveal on our Livestream leads to a Bawdy audience member’s diagnosis, too. Details make the story, and stories change lives! #Faceblind #Neurocognitive #Bendy

Hosted by Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour

Opening Music: 8 Miles Wide by Storm Large

Song: ‘Lowkey F2020’ (Avenue Beat)


Caz Killjoy is a cripsex agitator, disability activist, educator, writer, storyteller, and general pain in the ass who focuses on the things that make most people uncomfortable: accessibility; sex and kink; pain, disability, and illness; death and poverty; advocacy; and technological security. They are a co-founder of the Disability and Sexuality Access Network and a founding board member of the Kinder Foundation. Find them at @CazKilljoy and

Caz was diagnosed with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome:



Our next Bawdy Storytelling Livestream is themed ‘F*ckbuddies’  and it’s happening on Saturday, August 29th at 7 PM PDT/10 PM EDT - and this is the Bawdy live you don’t want to miss! 

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How to pitch your story for the Bawdy Storytelling Livestream & Podcast: take out your phone, hit record on your voice memo, and tell me your story (beginning, middle and end). Put your name on that file, attach it to an email and send it to or send a google link to I can’t wait to hear your story!


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SOUNDS RATHER RUDE: This week, I found out that the Bawdy Storytelling podcast got some more Best Of’s! We were deemed “Best for Real Life Stories” (“Bawdy Storytelling was created so everyone can relate to the stories”)

In the UK:

In Scotland:

In Ireland:

And I was lumped in with the likes of Oprah and Demi Moore (Bawdy is ‘immensely popular’ in Iceland, apparently) by (one of the big news outlets in Iceland):

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In a year like this one, momentous moments like this deserve a moment of gratitude. I’m savoring this moment but next week, I would love your help to produce the 5 Thing that make us Happy section. Please send your uplifting articles & links to us, let me know how you want to be credited, and we’ll spread the good word in our newsletter and in our podcast show notes.

Email your inspiration to -  & Thanks!


Patreon: A global pandemic and economic devastation means that the live events that once kept Bawdy Storytelling afloat are long gone. What’s keeping our podcast and livestream going? Bawdy would not exist right now without Patreon. Right now, Patreon is our everything - and becoming a member of our Patreon ensures that Bawdy can make it through this difficult time. And the rewards you get in exchange for your support are getting better: Our $10/month Patreon supporters now receive - in addition to ad-free episodes of the podcast - new rewards like free tickets to our Livestream shows, access to the livestream recordings, our behind-the-scenes story coaching series, story videos from the live show & more. Thanks so much for your support during this catastrophic loss of show revenue, friends! Want to ensure that Bawdy make it through the Apocalypse? Become a Member at


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Our next Bawdy Storytelling Livestream is themed ‘F*ckbuddies’  and it’s happening on Saturday, August 29th at 7 PM PDT/10 PM EDT - and this is the Bawdy live you don’t want to miss! 

Tickets are available at

What time is that for YOU? Use this:


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Thank you to the Team that makes this podcast possible!

Team Bawdy is:
Podcast Producer & Livestream Technical Director: Marty Garcia
Sound Engineer: David Grosof
Archivist / Video: Joe Moore

Bawdy Livestream pre-show video by Donal Mooney

& Bawdy Creator & Podcast Host Dixie De La Tour

& Thank you to Pleasure Podcasts - we’re proud to be part of your sex-positive podcast collective! 

Direct download: Episode_137_Caz_Killjoy.mp3
Category:Storytelling -- posted at: 1:48pm PDT